The term Cassandra Syndrome is often tossed around in conversations about and among women in neurodiverse relationships. Before going any further, let’s define some terms.

In Greek mythology, Cassandra promised herself to Apollo in exchange for the gift of prophecy. Once she received it, however, she went back on her word and refused him. As a god, Apollo could not revoke his gift, so he punished Cassandra with the curse that though she might speak the truth, no one would believe her.*see below

Cassandra Syndrome/Condition is a term often used to describe the experience of the neurotypical partner in a neurodiverse relationship when she feels that by recounting her own experience, she is disbelieved by friends, family, and even mental health professionals. This can lead her to experience confusion, self-doubt, anger, depression, anxiety, as well as physical symptoms associated with stress. This emotional status is real. She is not be…

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